Be a lover of life, and people

When others are looking at you from the outside they can only speculate and assume they know you. More often than not, many won't take the time to get to know you. I love getting to know people. I find people very interesting, and I always seem to learn something from everyone I meet. Sometimes it's good things, and sometimes not so good but you do learn from everyone you meet. We are all books so to speak, we all have a story. If I could share my book with the world it would be titled, The Woman who loved Fully. I put my all into those I love. I am a lover of people, places and things that matter. I live each day with a smile, with dreams and thoughts of happiness. I embrace life, and don't dwell on the negative things that seem to consume the minds and lives of many. I am a believer in what you put out in the universe is reflected in your life. If you give, share, respect and embrace love, the universe will reflect that in your life. It is often important to look at our lives and what we are going through, if it is more bad than good, take a look at the life you are living, and change what we are putting out into the universe.

It's ok to be alone

I realize that No one wants to be alone. However, many are using poor judgment when choosing a companion. Gods plan is not for us to be alone but too many people are not waiting on God, following his path or listening for his instructions. How do you know that you are off path? If your relationship is constantly putting you through, if your giving chance after chance and things still don't seem to be any better, it may be signs that you are not where God wants you to be. Now listen close because I'm not saying that in a relationship you don't endure, because everyone goes through trails and tribulations but trust there is a difference in arguing over not spending enough time together, not helping out around the house, not rubbing your back or being more attentive and someone cheating time and time again, someone who is not a team player in the relationship and leaving you with a heavy burden, someone who is controlling, obsessive and or abusive physically, emotionally, verbally or mentally. We can not change anyone, we can only change ourselves and we will either change to know what we want and deserve or we can change to fit into someone else's world and make them happy. Changing ourselves to benefit someone else is never the right choice. We also can not change someone else no matter how hard we try, that person has to want and be willing to make changes themselves to benefit themselves not for another person. Everlasting change is change that we want for ourselves, changing for someone else is always temporary because when things don't work out they revert back to themselves until the next candidate comes along that requires you to change for them. Sometimes GOD wants us to be alone, he wants us to wait, be still, meditate on his word, stop and listen to his instructions and he will place the right person in our path. Don't allow a need to be with someone make you choose just anyone. SheUplifts, The Postal Pen VSJ~